my updates for the past week..

time really flies..

i can't remember what and when i last updated...i know i've been a bad blogger these days..but i am seriously plain lazy..i am so tired and exhausted..plus i am having a bad sore throat..haiz..do drink more water people..

i have a lot of pics to update too..posted a few here..but there're more at Multiply..do check it out k..hee..

well..for the past week...

celebrated my 4th monthsary with dear..it was quite a major one, compared to our previous celebrations..i know some of you might wonder why the need to celebrate a month...well..it might not be a big thing to anyone..but to us, it's a way of remembering a chapter completed..

every month counts..cause' with each passing month..it brings you nearer to an anniversary..

in that way..when you get old..you could look at many beautiful pics and think 'hmm...wonderful'..

we celebrated with a trip to the Zoo..followed by a BBQ...

the Zoo trip was very worth it though..price per adult was S$15/- but me and dear got the entry fees waived off cause' i took from my company the 'Zoo's Corporate Card'..

haha..smart?..i know i am..hahaha..damn thick skin man..

anyway..it was a good day spent there though..took about 180 pics...haha...shall upload a few at Multiply..

and most importantly..we had Ben and Jerry's Ice-cream!!..haha..dear was such a spontenous person..ask him to take pics and he willingly posed pretty, handsome, charming, ugly, cute pics with me..

ask him to eat ice-cream he also eat with me..he even bought the both of us t-shirts from the Zoo.. :D

haha..he's such a treasure..

and having a BBQ by Pasir Ris Beach just ended the celebration in no other better way..

i did the marinating and he did the BBQ-ing..it was such good effort put together..we even tried to create our own choc fondue but reaped very bad results instead..

i bought the wrong chocs..and it turned out 'burnt'..

haiz..maybe next time we shall try again ba..since eating choc fondue outside is such an expensive fare..

these days..i am pretty 'stingy' with my $$..cause' i am paying off my last instalment for my braces..a whooping S$1,500/-..

but then..one last payment and i shall be off braces.. :D ..no more payment of hundred bucks every month to my dentist..and my teeth will be pretty!..

apart from the monthsary celebration..

i changed my blog's song..it's e theme song of the korean show...'200 pounds beauty'..a nice and touching song indeed..the show was great too..

reinforces the point that some things are beyond looks..

talking about this topic..a close friend and I had a conversation over his gf last week..he honestly told me that he does not love her 'that much' when compared to his ex cause she ain't that pretty..just average looking..

i simply replied him that 'some things are beyond looks'..

i am sure many of you out there will agree with me, somehow rather. what's the point of getting a pretty gal when she does not love you as much and treats you bad. no doubt everyone wants a partner he or she can show off to people..

but looks aren't everything. it's always the heart that counts.

just like me and dear, the both of us are simply normal and ordinary folks..but the love we share and the care and support that i get from him everyday is simply extraordinary..

just like clothings..you don't need a nice or pretty dress to bring out the best in you..you only need the right person who fits well...

i knew of a friend who married his wife recently..after they've been together for only 3 months..

definately..the first question that pops up would be 'shotgun'?..nope..simple reason: they both find that they are The One for each other..

i kind of know that kind of feeling..it does not come everyday..it only comes once in a lifetime..

i attended a chinese wedding dinner yesterday with Mr. Cheng..and we sat on a table with a fellow colleague who has since been posted to another unit..

while i was busy doing my emcee stuff for the event, Mr. Cheng kept himself busy talking to the colleague about marriage and weddings..and once in a while, he disturbs me by telling me that we should get married too!..

i pretended and was looking everywhere else and acting busy...but that does not stop him from disturbing and playing around.. :P

well...

marriage is a lifetime thingy..a beautiful and impressive wedding is but for a day..a marriage is for a lifetime..

maybe it's the fear in me..but i've always thought it to be scary to have a lifetime commitment with someone..that is like at least 60 years down the road..

when you get married..you exchange rings as a symbol of love..you get a certificate that says you are both legally together..you get all the legal obligations that comes along with it..you exchanged vows and promised to be there for each other through the good times and bad..

you have a beautiful church wedding before God..and an impressive wedding dinner bash..everyone wishes you a blissful marriage and happiness of a lifetime..

after that special one day..you are legally, physically, mentally, emotionally combined and together..

there must not be any more rash acts or neglect on many things..

no longer should each of you have too much a private space...

it's a BIG thingy to me eh..but a lot of people kept telling me that i think too much..haha

maybe ba..

i've always have this fondness for the imaginary...

thank god i don't hallucinate..

oh..and just 2 days back..i tried rock-climbing..alright..it might not be a great deal..but it is to me!...i am so unfit man...i barely climbed 1/4 of the wall before giving up..

i just can't make it..and now i am having such bodyaches all over my body..

even a simple task of tossing around the bed while sleeping is tough..

but it was a good try though..at least i could look back oon my life and think no regrets.. :D

alright..i think dad wants to go out for a dinner..

i am gonna end here..will be back with more photos..

:D